
It’s a concept that I constantly consider when I consider the work I do, how I generally operate in business every day, my career and personal growth, and the value I’m able to deliver to metabolic on a day-to-day basis.
It’s the idea of observing the world as it is, not as we would like it to be.
I wrote this post, it felt pretty powerful.
Not many people saw it, and it’s too long to post on LinkedIn or Twitter, so I’m going to read it to you and provide a little context. I’d love your feedback on the idea.
Do you see the world as it is or as you wish it to be?
Your answer is critical in the journey to everyday peak performance.
Far too often for far too many people, it’s the ladder.
This speaks to our lack of willingness to experience the short-term pain of changing our current position, status, and environment for the long-term payoff of the life we want to live.
Here’s an easy way to find out where you fall in this dichotomy.
Do you say:
You can also substitute if only for as long as, provided that. There are two others, but there’s some nuance to them because they kind of work both ways: but and because.
Viewing the world as you wish it to be leads to excuse-making, which in turn leads to a scarcity mindset, which ultimately stagnates personal growth.
The truth is:
These are the hard realities that we have to face.
Facing them head-on forces us to deal with the underlying emotions of doubt, fear, and insecurity, which are the root cause of our excuse-making in the first place.
Observe the world as it is, for this allows you to rise above it.
Guys, I think this concept of viewing the world as it is and not as we want it to be is incredibly, incredibly powerful, and it’s just a small little mental tweak. I don’t wish the world was some way.
Here’s how the world is and if I want it to be different, I have to take action to change it.
If you can think this way, make this small mental adjustment over time, and think, “I can’t change the way the world is today unless I take action,” then it gives you a goal.
It gives you a path, a process, actually, to make something happen.
If you only view the world as you wish it to be, then exterior forces are causing these things, and you’re just a byproduct of those exterior forces. You have no choice.
You have no way of changing your situation.
For far too many of us, we allow what we would like the world to be like to dictate our reality, when in truth, reality is what it is and we have all the power we need inside us to do the things necessary to turn what we would like the world to be into what it actually is.
I just wanted to share this because as I look through my own career, I will do this. I wish that certain things were easier, that I was better at certain things, that I had more contacts. Well, I know the things that I need to do now because the world is what it is.
I know what I need to do to get to where I want to be and I hope that this idea helps you.
Yours in strength,
Hanley
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